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Videos, books, and podcasts to support your self-inquiry and personal growth.

Video

The School of Life on YouTubeThe School of Life on YouTube
Wim Hof guided breathwork on YouTubeWim Hof guided breathwork on YouTube
Your brain on trauma video from Unlikely CollaboratorsYour brain on trauma video from Unlikely Collaborators
Understanding psychedelics by Big Think on YouTubeUnderstanding psychedelics by Big Think on YouTube
Guided meditation with Sam Harris on YouTubeGuided meditation with Sam Harris on YouTube
What is NARM therapy? by Dr. Laurence Heller, NARM Founder on YouTubeWhat is NARM therapy? by Dr. Laurence Heller, NARM Founder on YouTube

Self-Inquiry

ACE quiz by Center on the Developing Child at Harvard UniversityACE quiz by Center on the Developing Child at Harvard University
Understand Myself quiz by Jordan PetersonUnderstand Myself quiz by Jordan Peterson
Self Authoring suite by Jordan PetersonSelf Authoring suite by Jordan Peterson

Resources to help you look within, and connect to yourself more fully.

Books

Man's Search for Meaning book link to amazon.Man's Search for Meaning book link to amazon.
Rethinking Narcissim book link to amazon. Rethinking Narcissim book link to amazon.
Tao Te Ching book link to amazon. Tao Te Ching book link to amazon.
Atlas of the Heart book link to amazon.Atlas of the Heart book link to amazon.
The Mountain Is You book link to amazon.The Mountain Is You book link to amazon.
Atomic Habits book link to amazon.Atomic Habits book link to amazon.
The Miracle of Mindfulness book link to amazon.The Miracle of Mindfulness book link to amazon.
Quiet book link to amazon.Quiet book link to amazon.
The Body Keeps the Score book link to amazon.The Body Keeps the Score book link to amazon.
The Obstacle Is The Way book link to amazon.The Obstacle Is The Way book link to amazon.

Each of these books has helped me on my journey. The images are clickable and will open a link to amazon. I do not get any kickback if you decide to buy.

Reality Transurfing book link to amazon. Reality Transurfing book link to amazon.
The Science of Storytelling book link to amazon.The Science of Storytelling book link to amazon.

Music

Music can be a powerful way to change the mind. This is my personal playlist that allows me to connect to gratitude.

FAQs

What is the difference between introspection and self-inquiry

Self-inquiry and introspection differ mainly in their focus: self-inquiry investigates the source of the "I" to realize one's true, unchanging nature, while introspection (self-reflection/analysis) examines personal thoughts, emotions, and behaviors to improve psychological understanding. Self-inquiry dissolves the ego, whereas introspection manages it.

What is Agency?

Agency refers to the capacity of an individual or entity to make independent choices, exert power, and act intentionally to influence their environment or future. It represents a sense of control over one's life, rather than being passively driven by external forces.

What is Self-Leadership?

Self-leadership is the practice of intentionally influencing your own thinking, feelings, and actions to achieve personal or professional goals. It involves self-awareness, self-motivation, and self-direction—essentially acting as the captain of your own life to build resilience, increase performance, and foster authenticity.

What is MetaCognition?

Metacognition is commonly defined as "thinking about one's own thinking" or an awareness and understanding of one's own cognitive processes. It involves actively planning, monitoring, and evaluating one's learning or problem-solving strategies to improve efficiency and performance.

How is life coaching different from therapy?

Therapy focuses on healing, resolving past trauma, and treating mental health conditions, often looking backward to understand the present, and is performed by licensed professionals. Coaching is future-focused, targeting goal setting, personal growth, and action plans to improve performance. Therapy fixes dysfunction, while coaching builds from functionality to thriving.

What is Life Coaching?

Personal coaching is a collaborative, one-on-one partnership designed to help individuals define personal or professional goals, overcome obstacles, and accelerate growth. Coaches use structured conversations, active listening, and powerful questions to empower clients to identify their own solutions and take action, acting as a catalyst for life improvement, often called life coaching, mentoring, or professional coaching.